Note: In Pod Thirteen, Eli and Grammy talk about listening to others’ feelings, and having grace and compassion. Grammy talks about her work in helping people turn an emotional experience into a book. Eli and Grammy act out a conversation they had years ago that demonstrates Eli’s compassion as a tiny boy. (It’s also so silly.) The activity is for parents and children to tell a funny story and write it down or create a video to preserve it and to also record their COVID-19 stories. Click here to start at the beginning of the Poem Pod series.
Grammy: Hi everyone, Eli and I are here, bringing you Poem Pods once again.
Eli: Fun poems for fun people.
Grammy: Nice. It’s pretty hot now, and we’re still smiling under our masks.
Eli: Gasp! Gasp. I can’t breathe.
Grammy: That’s very dramatic, Eli, but I bet that’s also how you feel! Right?
Eli: Yeah, kind of.
Grammy: How people feel is important, and we have to pay attention even if we don’t understand in the moment. Don’t you think?
Eli: Yeah.
Grammy: That’s what I love about my work. I get to help people who often have lots of emotions about something.
Eli: Help them how?
Grammy: I help them talk about their feelings so they can write about their feelings and have a book that is about their history and their past. It makes me happy to learn about people and even happier to help them tell the story that they want to keep for all time.
Eli: That’s interesting. They must need some help doing it.
POEM
Grammy: You know, people do need help doing it. It’s hard to be objective about your own life and your own emotions, and so I’m really helpful in that way. So, today, we have a very serious and sweet poem and also a funny story. Are you ready for that combo, Eli?
Eli: Yup.
Grammy: The poem is one I wrote years ago for Mommy. She was going off to her last day of fifth grade. She had on a pretty, off-white linen dress, and she had picked a bouquet of flowers for her teacher and the principal, and she had a small bouquet in each of her hands. The poem is called:
Grace
Beautiful flowers.
A beautiful face.
A young, lovely girl,
So full of grace.
Grammy: Eli, you’re actually also full of grace, just like your mom. And you have been since you were a tiny boy. Eli, do you know what compassion means?
Eli: It means you feel for someone and try to make them feel better.
Grammy: You’ve always been really good at that. You have always been compassionate. You’ve always known the right thing to say. Or almost. I have a story about that, because stories are what?
Eli: Funny?
Grammy: Important! Stories are important! Sometimes they’re also funny.
Grammy: After Ed passed away, Eli was 3. We were taking a walk, and Eli was riding in a backpack on my shoulders. Eli, how about we act that out, like it happened, okay?
Eli: Okay.
Grammy: I said: I miss Poppa.
Eli: I miss Poppa, too.
Grammy: He patted my shoulder.
Eli: It’s okay, Grammy. That’s what I’ll say to you.
Grammy: That’s nice, Eli. That’s just the right thing to say.
Eli: Ya, cuz I’m good at making people feel better.
Grammy: You are, Eli. You made me feel better. I’m happy when I’m with you.
Eli: I made my friend Jamil happy, too. He was crying, and I said, “It’s okay, Jamil.”
Grammy: Did that help him, Eli? Did Jamil stop crying?
Eli: No, he didn’t stop crying.
Grammy: Eli laughed then. Then he said:
Eli: So, I licked him. I was pretending to be a puppy.
Grammy: You licked him? Did that work, Eli?
Eli? Yes, that did the trick. Jamil stopped crying!
ACTIVITY
Grammy: That’s funny, and that brings us to today’s activity, doesn’t it, Eli?
Eli: Yes, and it’s just like our activity yesterday, which is for kids AND parents to write down their funny stories. What if my Grammy didn’t write down this funny story about Jamil and I?
Grammy: Find a way to tell your story. In a poem—or a video. You could do a video. Or just a story written down on a piece of paper, or a doodle on the back of a napkin. Just save it!
Eli: Tell your stories! That’s what my Grammy says.
Grammy: If you tell us your stories…
Eli: I promise I won’t lick you!
Grammy: I won’t lick you either!
Eli and Grammy: That’s the end of the thirteenth Poem Pod. Let’s all keep smiling under these hot and stuffy masks! It’s important to wear them because we’re keeping people safe.
Grammy: Like Amanda.
Eli: Yeah.
Grammy: That reminds me. We should all be telling our stories about this time in the world.
Eli: Right, Grammy? If we don’t, nobody would ever believe it.
Grammy: Nobody would ever believe that this kind of thing is happening. Tell your stories about having to wear a mask, and not being able to go places or do the things you normally do. Tell those stories!
I’m loving these Poem Pods for all kinds of reasons. First, they make me smile. Second, it’s heartwarming to hear the special relationship the two of you have and third I love how they inspire creativity. Keep them coming!
Thank you, Monica. Music to my ears. Thank you for listening. They should still be here on the site when Santi is older!
Eli that was so funny about you licking your friend, that would make anyone stop crying and start laughing instead. How clever was that.
Janice this was such a great idea doing this with your buddy Eli, you two have such a special relationship, that is so awesome. And you were right Janice, I really did enjoy this one, but I have all of them too.
You both are such great inspiration to all those who listen. Bless you both for caring for everyone.
My new poem
Mask
Wearing a mask
keeps everyone safe
It can be a task
But this too shall pass
I miss all the hugs
From family and friends
But I want them safe
So one day we’ll all embrace
Thanks again for kind words, Charlene. And I love your poem! Very true and real, and I love the ending! Can’t wait for embraces to return to our world! Thank you so much for taking part, for doing the activities, and for all your fun and kind feedback!
It’s been my pleasure, and thank you for your inspiration.
Inspiration…that’s my pleasure!